Dating a German Girl, German Romance

By Nick | Aug 28, 2007

My Personal Experience:

A guy once told me: German girls are like the opposite of Ying and Yang, give a German girl a lot of attention and she won’t like you. Instead give her lots of space, just to the point where she starts to worry about you.

German girls, at least those that I have encountered, like free space. I make the mistake of giving them too much attention and that doesn’t seem to work. You may also find that they stick to their beliefs… Once they have their mind set they won’t change it. Usually they will find Germany just does things better. Make sure you separate the trash into different waste baskets and keep the toilet seat down (and all normal things you should be doing.)

German girls won’t plan to marry you until at least age 28 or 29. Don’t expect them to move in with you until at least a few years after you have been dating. German girls are independent and self sufficient, not really needing a man in their life.

Just make sure you respect her, don’t see her that often and everything should be great :) .

According to Roadjunky.com:

German Girls

The vision is of some blond-haired, pigtailed, buxom Heidi with her voluptuous body wedged into a blue and white Dirndl several sizes too small, and carrying ten glasses of beer. These women exist of course but it’s normally those ten glasses of beer, the ones you have drunk, which makes Heidi look attractive.

German girls are fantastic. Born and raised in an equal country, women are dominant in most facets of life, except in top-level business but they understand that that’s too stressful. The girls like to laugh, have a good time, and will probably drink you under the table. They are not exactly used to being propositioned in the streets and most hate Machismo men, but they are flattered by attention and romance.

German Boys

This vision is of a BMW driving bank clerk with a stringy moustache, hair a little too long at the back and a little too short at the front, a can of beer close at hand and Duran Duran blaring from the car stereo. German men are known as being insensitive, self-serving and cold; of course, that could be the description of men everywhere. By contrast, they are surprisingly sensitive, almost to the point of being completely insecure and unsure of themselves. If a girl comes up to talk to them, they might at first think she wants something from them.

It’s important to remember that many German men live at home for a long time, even after they have done their national service. Don’t expect them to be domestic wonders, nor be surprised when you come home and they’re watching football with a beer in their hands. If you do everything for them, they won’t try to stop you, but if you order them around, show some spunk, they’ll find you even more attractive.

Has anyone dated a German? Do they agree?

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5 Comments so far
  1. Anonymous August 28, 2007 4:23 pm

    I came this close to dating a german girl once. It’s how we met that led me to believe they are interested when you ignore them. We laughed we talked but alas she was leaving to study in a few days. I now see how this article could have helped me had I followed her to the ends of the earth.

  2. Nick August 29, 2007 8:45 am

    Glad I could help… Every girl is different, but I believe there that the cultural difference can make things difficult

  3. Anonymous August 31, 2007 12:57 am

    hum sorry to interuppt der conversation but i am german…a girl …lol that is ture lol i like to have space Ja it ist ture. ich liebe a guy who makes me happy and make me laugh alot. but it would move into a mans house after at least 2 ur 3 yrs of dating. i would waite unitl we wear nboth around age of 25 or 26 to get married. umm girls love flowers. i love them. i love someone who dont get roses though. but blonde big boobs skinny girls ..and have a nice arsch do exist. lol ME.
    hehe but surry ich taken. i love when men do random things. i dont know why but i do. german girls are all suymiular but still very different. Ich liebe dich du alle. gl in the feature.

  4. Christian Eliab Ratnam April 21, 2008 12:44 pm

    THIS IS SOOOOOOO TRUE!!! Am dating a german girl at the moment….and I LOVE her loads….but I totally agree witht his article….it’s spooky, how an article can be so accurate! I will take the advice!!! Thanks Nick!!! AMAZING REALLY!!!

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